think me first

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What is Behind Think Me First?

Thinkmefirst.com was created by a lot of experience, tears, frustration, research, feelings, therapy, reality, and many, many more words that can describe my long journey. Some paths took me to very lonely and dark places. Other avenues took me to the most stress-free and happiest areas of my life.

After many years of domestic abuse, I developed a mindset knowing I had to get out of my situation. I knew I was better than I was being treated and I deserved much more than I was receiving. My values, morals, and ethics far exceeded those of my abuser.

I was full of anger, loneliness, and I was very scared. My self-esteem and lack of confidence were destroyed. I had no identity. Everything I had been told by my abuser, I believed and nothing I was being told was the truth. Yet, in the back of my mind, I still had it in me to find myself again.

I changed my mindset.

Then I did it, I left!

It was my turn and my time to find something I had not had much of…..happiness. This whole time I had been letting other people define who I was. I let other people control my happiness. When indeed, I learned that only I had the power and control to make myself happy and not let others choose my happiness for me. Happiness is truly a masterpiece after one has learned to master peace.

So, I set out to find myself and give myself a personal identity or brand. It was not easy, but it was so worth it. Even today I am still practicing self love. There is always something more to be learned, to be read, to be heard and to experience.

I hope this site will help you with your cause as much as it helps me to write about them.

So, take care of yourself and “think ME first!”

 

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